AWESOME GIVEAWAY!

So I really want to win this and I will be posting and entering as many times as I can. I know my chances are slim since there are so many of us TWIHARDS, but I still got to try!!!!!

http://www.birminghammommy.com/2009/11/twerds-tweeks-its-time-for-new-moon.html

Just getting it off my chest

I can't stand LIARS!!! If there is one thing in this world that ticks me off it is for someone to blatantly lie to me! You know who you are so I'm not naming names, feel the burn when you read this because you know you are WRONG! Not only did you lie to me, but you lied about me! I tried to be your friend but you make that impossible. We invited you to hang out with us and you always had an excuse, but when we don't invite you you get upset. WTH!! I listened to you constantly talk about "the other group" and worry about what they were doing and tried to help you feel you were part of a group also and it's ok for them to do things together because we all did. Little did I know your obsession with that group was because you so desperately wanted to be in that group and our group of friends wasn't good enough for you. I'm done, you create your own karma and just remember what you do comes back to you three fold. No that is not a threat, it is just the way the universe works. And don't forget those people you are reaching out to now, they will catch on too!

I'm good with me. I feel I have done everything possible to reach out to you and be a friend. I hope one day you find what you are looking for.

Political Bull

I was in a conversation last night and it really made me think about a lot that has been said in the last few months during this election. I do not pretend to know everything nor do I think I am always right, but I am entitled to my opinion and my vote. I am neither a Republican nor a Democrat, I do not believe in settling with a party that agrees with some of my views so I do not call myself either. Truth be known I have taken quizzes in the past and I align with the Libertarians, but we know that there are really only two parties here that control everything so I will focus on that. There are a few things that really disturbed me so I am asking you to shed some light on these issues if you can.

1. What is with straight party ballot voting? Do you research all the candidates? Do you know what they stand for. In my opinion a vote should be based on the issues and if the candidate will do the job. There were some races I didn't like either candidate so I didn't vote because I couldn't decide who was the "lesser evil" Why would you want to put someone in a position if you are unsure of the job they will do. I have heard the phrase "My views typically align with ________ party so I just always vote ________" Well what if in that election the person who is running does not align with your views and you missed that fact because you just blankly voted, I know this sounds harsh and you will probably think it's rude but you will hear it more than once from me, but voting strictly by party affiliation and not the issues is irresponsible. (just my opinion)

2. I did not grow up in the south and I was not raised to look at people based on their color, authenticity or religion so maybe that is why I don't get this. How is it ok for a black person to vote for Obama just because he is black, but not for someone to not vote for him because he is black. Both are forms of racism in my opinion. Again people it is about the issues here, NOT COLOR! Again irresponsible voting.

3. Why do you base your vote on something that personally does not affect you, or is not really going to affect the person in the office that term. Case in point the hot button issue of abortion. Now let me just state, I am pro-choice but not pro-abortion. I do not feel it should be a government issue. Now partial birth abortions is another thing, to me that is just murder. Truthfully, think about it would you ever have an abortion? If not then it really does not affect you life so it should be a non issue in this case. In all honesty it is not the President who decides on RoevWade it is the Supreme Court. Yes the President appoints the members of the court, and you can correct me if I'm wrong, but there is no one about to retire or die in the next four years so again their views on abortion are a non issue in this election.

I won't get into some of the other issues, these are the few that I think are non partisan so I can get slammed by both parties equally for my opinions.

One of those stories

This is one of those stories that is so cute you have to share it with the world. Peanut has not napped in some time and I never get anything done around the house, so today I told him if he wasn't going to nap he was going to help clean. To my surprise he was eager to help. He grabbed the broom and attempted to sweep the floor, then took the duster and dusted a few things. It came time to empty the dishwasher and apparently the dishes were still a little warm. He immediately went to the drawer and grabbed some oven mits and began unloading the dishes. How smart is this kid! I had to run and grab the camera, this was most definitely a Kodak moment.

Pretend play

This may seem a little silly, but I just had to post this video! I had to get the hubby to film it because he already saw me with the camera and started posing. What is the big deal? Well he is now pretend playing, all his speech in this video is spontaneous, and no dialogueing!!!! Huge step!! Over the last two weeks I have seen this really emerge and I am just busting at the seams with happiness. He finally knows what to do with his toys and that they are not just objects to throw or kick around.